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Read moreSelf first is not selfish
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Conversation → Clarity is a series of coaching conversation insights I had with my inspiring clients.
Context:
E is currently participating in my advanced group coaching programme—Being° the Leader.
She is dedicated to being a source of loving support and empowerment for herself and others. Her goals include expanding her personal growth and creating a fulfilling life.
One of her objectives is to create magical team experiences by experimenting with facilitating powerful workshops on leadership and strengths.
She has just finished testing her first workshop inside the programme, and is currently experimenting with her second one. This time, she is receiving compensation for her efforts.
Below is her sharing her insights with me.
Conversation:
E:
“Holy wow I am already learning so much through this experience and one may think it hasn’t even started 😮”
I was inspired by her insight and created a visual to represent why it’s important to fill our cup first:
Clarity:
The takeaway is that choosing self first is not selfish.
How committed are you?
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Imagine this
You and I are in a conversation—and I say to you:
“Hey! I run this workshop called Being° Together, and the last one is happening this Saturday. The investment is $195 and 3 hours of your time.
This workshop will open up new possibilities, bring clarity, inspiration, and help you take meaningful action in your life.
If you are committed to joining and be fully present, I promise you will experience a breakthrough that will profoundly impact your life.”
Be as honest as you can
What do you notice?
What’s going through your mind?
How would you respond to my invitation?
Did any of these come up?
"I don't have the time."
"I already have plans."
"I can't afford it."
"It's not my thing."
"I'm too tired."
"I'm not feeling well."
"I'm too busy with other commitments."
"I'm not comfortable in social situations."
"I don't know anyone there."
"I've been to similar events before."
Now, imagine this
Turns out I’m a billionaire and I say to you:
“If you attend the workshop this Saturday, you will get $100,000!”
Be as honest as you can
What do you notice this time?
What’s going through your mind?
How would you respond to my invitation?
Take a moment to reflect
What do you notice emerging once the $100K prize is guaranteed upon attending the workshop?
Did you experience this phenomena?
"I don't have the time."
"I’ll make it work.""I already have plans."
"I’ll move the plans.""I can't afford it."
"I’ll borrow money.""It's not my thing."
"Money is always my thing.""I'm too tired."
"I'm never too tired for $100K.""I'm not feeling well."
"I'm sure I’ll feel better by this Saturday""I'm too busy with other commitments."
"I'll move my other commitments.""I'm not comfortable in social situations."
"I'll deal with the discomfort.""I don't know anyone there."
"I’ll survive.""I've been to similar events before." "
I’m sure this is different."
You may observe a heightened level of creativity as you strategise and explore innovative ways to ensure your presence at the workshop.
Reward drives human behaviour and actions
When the desired outcome is assured—such as a $100,000 prize—it tends to have a profound impact on our commitment and creativity. It motivates us to fully dedicate ourselves to the task at hand.
We become more invested in achieving the goal
We are willing to put in the necessary effort and persistence
Our minds open up to new possibilities and innovative approaches
We’re empowered to embrace a mindset of exploration, problem-solving, and risk-taking
It fuels our imagination, propels us to explore uncharted territories, and encourages us to tap into our creative potential
We start thinking outside the box, exploring unconventional strategies, and pushing our boundaries to reach the objective in the most efficient and effective way possible
Imagine making a commitment to yourself and your life with the same level of dedication and enthusiasm as if you were guaranteed to receive $100K.
By embracing this mindset, you infuse your actions with a sense of purpose, empowering you to align your daily choices with your long-term vision.
Just as you would strive to maximise your chances of attaining the $100,000 reward—you would approach your personal and professional endeavours with unwavering commitment.
You would be driven to explore new possibilities, step outside of your comfort zone, and unleash your creative potential to achieve extraordinary results.
Your commitment would fuel your resilience and propel you forward—knowing that the ultimate payoff is worth the effort
Moreover, adopting this mentality fosters self-belief and self-confidence. It reminds you of your inherent worth and potential—encouraging you to take risks, learn from failures, and continuously grow and evolve.
By committing to yourself and your life as if you were guaranteed $100K, you unlock a new level of dedication and motivation. You become the architect of your own success—creating a life that is truly fulfilling and meaningful.
So imagine this again
You and I are in a conversation—and I say to you:
“Hey! I run this workshop called Being° Together, and the last one is happening this Saturday. The investment is $195 and 3 hours of your time.
This workshop will open up new possibilities, bring clarity, inspiration, and help you take meaningful action in your life.
If you are committed to joining and be fully present, I promise you will experience a breakthrough that will profoundly impact your life.
Wanna join?”
Wherever you go, there you are
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Conversation → Clarity is a series of coaching conversation insights I had with my inspiring clients.
Context:
My client (let’s call her A) quit her job and moved from NYC back to Athens to prioritise what’s important to her—her family.
Conversation:
A:
“You know, NYC is really magical for me—and I am committed to making Athens more magical.
I don’t believe it, yet, and I’m working on it.”
Me:
“If two chefs cooked you a dish each, and they both are beyond delicious!
And I told you that one chef had a Premium Japanese A5 Wagyu Beef to work with, while the other had a local liver and kidney—which chef would you be impressed with?”
A:
“The one with the liver.
Funny you said liver, my brother cooked at an open fire the other day and it was goat liver with just olive oil and salt. It was amazing.
I guess love was another ingredient, too.”
